The Submissive Wife

The Submissive Wife’s 20 Questions

Smart women ask smart questions. They deserve smart answers. Here they are.

he purpose of this site is to provide information about the Submissive Wife project to others. Project participants collected the top 20 questions posed by most women visiting this site and consulted with the instructor to provide answers that we hope will be helpful to those trying to make their way on this very difficult journey. While these answers are necessarily simplified responses to complex queries, they do suggest the nature of the project and how it works.

In 2004, we revised this page to make it easier to use and to give more complete answers to each question. Just click a Q to get an A! If you have an interest in this project and have a question that isn’t on this list, let us know by clicking here. One of us will try to help by finding an answer for you as quickly as possible.

NOTE: During 2005 this section underwent revision as our instructor’s notes were recompiled, reviewed and edited. The responses in this section were created from notes, correspondence, and other documents provided to us by our Instructor and adapted by us under his supervision. These FAQs do not represent a warranty or offer of any kind. This site is not a recruitment tool: Before reviewing these FAQs, please read our note to prospective participants. For additional information, contact us or visit our online community.

§ Q01 - What does instruction involve, exactly?

§ Q02 - How will this affect my marriage?

§ Q03 - Why can’t my husband do this? Can’t I just tell him to dominate me?

§ Q04 - What do participants have to do?

§ Q05 - I heard about this from another woman. Will I have to do what she’s doing?

§ Q06 - I love my husband, but I just want lots more sex. Is that okay?

§ Q07 - Is it possible for me to contact one of the project participants?

§ Q08 - Is there anything that will help me understand if this is wrong or not?

§ Q09 - Why can’t I see the pages devoted to resources and disciplines?

§ Q10 - I just started this and the feelings are already so intense. Will I be okay?

§ Q11 - Why do you do this?

§ Q12 - Who can participate and how much does it cost?

§ Q13 - I’m a submissive male. Can you train me?

§ Q14 - I’m a man, but I want to help you instruct my wife. Is that possible?

§ Q15 - My behavior’s a little wild and out-of-control. Will this help?

§ Q16 - Why is this all about sex?

§ Q17 - I’m in a committed same-sex relationship. Can you help me?

§ Q18 - What about privacy?

§ Q19 - I’m single. How can I participate?

§ Q20 - Does being submissive mean I am somehow inferior?

If you have additional questions, please contact one of us by clicking here. You may also find more answers in our forum community. Access the forum by clicking here.

This page reviewed and edited February 2005.