The Submissive Wife

The Submissive Wife’s 20 Answers

Who can participate and how much does it cost?

Fees for direct instruction have always been assigned individually. They’re based on ability to pay and on each woman’s objectives. Fees are also the least favored way of making compensation for instruction. We prefer that women who are given this instruction and guidance offer support in turn to other women who are in need of support and help (much as we are doing with this website). In some cases, fees are waived in favor of charitable donations made to mutually approved, tax-exempt organizations. A decision is usually made after the first few weeks whether or not a woman can benefit from this experience and no fees are levied until that time. No woman has ever been turned away because of inability to pay.

The most common reasons for declining a woman’s wish to participate are lack of apparent benefit; cynicism; disobedience; dishonesty; lack of intellectual skills; drug or alcohol abuse; and, above all, the inability of this project to accommodate more than a few participants at a time. Physical appearance is irrelevant to the instructional process, but perceived physical, emotional or other impediments to obedience must always be considered.

Effective July 2004: At present, new participants are discouraged from asking for direct guidance from the primary instructor, although exceptional requests will always be considered. A woman whose marriage is threatened because of some aspect of submissive need will be a likely candidate for direct instruction. In almost all cases, the project’s monitoring process is an effective way of gaining useful experience and insight.

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This page reviewed and edited December 2004.