The
Submissive Wife’s 20 Answers
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Why is this all about sex?
This
is mostly about sex because sex is what most women who are interested in
submission feel the most pressing need to understand. But being submissive is not
a Saturday night date trick. It’s not something you do. It’s something you are.
It’s a state of being, a way of life. Consequently, submission obtains in
almost every context of a woman’s life. Spiritual submission, emotional
submission, sexual submission, philosophical and intellectual submission—all of
these are part of the same understanding of a submissive woman’s self. In many
ways, sexual submission is the least interesting of these. But it has the
virtue of being the easiest to teach and the most pleasant to learn. Besides,
once sexual submission is understood, the rest readily follows.
Participants
are given text resources and additional support and
instruction helpful in making sure their intellectual understanding of
submission parallels their experiential understanding of what it means to
surrender sexually.
rachel: “Every day i feel i am opening
a new door, seeing a new thing, feeling something for the first time in a
different way. It all started with an orgasm, but if it had stopped there, i
would have died inside.”
stacy: “It’s like once I really saw
what it meant, I saw it everywhere.”
renate: “Even though i read some of
the books at university, i never really understood their deeper meaning until i
began to live the message they contained. Thanks for showing me this.”
zoë: “I am given 10 words a day by you if
I am lucky. But they are the right 10 words. I can’t believe they make me feel
like this, for so long. So few words, but they are all I can hear all day
long.”
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