The
Submissive Wife’s 20 Answers
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I love my husband, but I just want lots
more sex. Is that okay?
The
ruling principle here is that you must learn to obtain pleasure first by giving
pleasure to others. The more you strive to please only yourself, the more
unsatisfied you are likely to become. Happily, obedience provides an
opportunity to please not only the one to whom you owe obedience but others as
well.
anne: “Perhaps healthy sex is all you need to bring more peace and
balance into your life and the lives of those around you….It is possible to be guided
only sexually, but that doesn’t mean that it will be easier for you or that it
will not require trust and focus on your part. Here’s my advice: make it
meaningful. Take risks and give [your instructor or monitor] what is needed
to make you the woman you know you are, whether that’s a total slut like me or
a princess like some others. After all, to not do so would be a waste of
everyone’s time. And life is far too precious for that!”
rachel: “Wow, i remember that i
thought the way i was feeling after the first few months that i was going to
have to be a total nymphomaniac. Sure enough! But at least it’s with the poor
guy i married!”
jen: “i see now what happened. i realized that by understanding the meaning of obedience i could experience what i truly felt i needed much more deeply than i would have thought possible and with far more safety than i would have thought possible.”
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