Control.

 

 

T

he instinctive need to control everything drives most women to exhaustion. Obviously, this need is felt most strongly when evidence persists that if she didn’t keep everything under control, collapse would follow. Control therefore is something most women would happily share or abandon completely if only they felt they could. Yet surrendering control is essential to finding the path to submission. The moment control is entrusted to another is the moment a woman begins to understand the enormous comfort that submission brings. When you learn to yield control over the most intimate aspects of your life, you gain peace in return.

 

 

“I controlled everything in my home and at my job. And I hated every minute of it. Learning how to really trust someone else made me finally see that if I couldn’t give up controlling things, I wasn’t giving my boyfriend a chance to take care of me.” –Natalie L.

 

 

 

 

 

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