Wisdom.

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ong after the reward of all this work and effort comes a kind of surprising bonus—the knowledge that in addition to gaining self-knowledge and awareness, you’ve also gained a kind of wisdom that can’t be obtained any way other than experientially. Six months, a year, two years ago, you were trying to find some sort of connection late at night on-line or all day at work because you had none at home. Now perhaps that’s changed—but the biggest change of all is that you are simply wiser than you were when you started. Now you know what you didn't know not so long ago.

“Thank you so much for letting me help others. This all has been so special, i don’t even know where to start. But at least i can tell other girls that it is possible to start, and that that’s the scariest part.”—em

“When I tell people where I started and how I got to be where I am now, they just don’t believe me. They think it is impossible to be religious and have this, too. I don’t know why. So now I just don’t tell them—unless I think they need to know.” —nelly

“When i stop and realize that i wouldn’t even be a mother today, i am just gobsmacked.”—kyl

“The hardest part of this was knowing when I had succeeded…it seemed like it would take forever, until one day, here I am! Does that make any sense?” – lissa

“I started this training as a way to make my husband happy.  I didn't realize that this training was something that I would actually come to enjoy and appreciate.  It has helped me break down the walls of safety that I had built.  The golden rule states, ‘Do unto others as you would have done to you.’ I had been living ‘Do unto me or I won't do unto you.’ My husband is my best friend and I had not been giving myself to him mentally or physically.  I had been cheating him, but I had been cheating myself also.  This training has helped me realize that I need to give of myself totally, that my husband is my master, and that I will serve him willingly.  Thank you for your time and patience.” – dee

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