The Submissive Wife

“i read the website one more time tonight. The words there made so much sense this time, i cried.”—jill

he journey to sexual awareness and freedom is difficult, and the desire to surrender can often be overwhelming. Providing intelligent women with information about the uses of intimate instruction, close guidance and careful discipline is the basis of The Submissive Wife project. This site is maintained by a small community of women, all of whom are present or past project participants. We've made this as a gift to our instructor and mentor—and to those who pass by looking for answers.

If you are a woman who has recently discovered an instinctive desire to express submission and a need for a balanced, disciplined approach to her relationships, welcome. You are not alone. We have all been there.

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A NOTE ON THIS SITE: This website was launched over a decade ago as a series of user groups formed by participants taking monitored instruction from an unusually gifted and insightful teacher. The Submissive Wife website was originally built by aggregating the contents of these user groups and adding to them the remarks of our Instructor. The initial site was coded by d.r., sygne and fina. This version of the site was built by d.r., emily, t and anne. Community members have supplied the images of themselves found on these pages. This site was substantially redesigned by mireille and em in 2002 and 2003 and by tammy and laura beginning in 2006. Except where noted, the text for this site was compiled using excerpts from our teacher’s notes and interviews with him. The site coordinators are em and tammy. Responses to queries are provided by volunteers who have experienced the instruction described here and who monitor this site. Correspondence sent to us will be routed to an appropriate web monitor for a reply. Attention current and former participants: Contact us if you want to help or participate here. This is a participant project and does not directly involve our Common Instructor, the Architect of this project. It is not intended to recruit participants. Nothing in this site is intended to constitute an offer, contract or agreement of any kind. The content presented here is for informational purposes only. This website is intended for adult women only. If you are offended by frank discussions of submissive sexuality, you should not enter this site. This site contains no pornographic images but you should be at least 21 years of age to access these pages.